THE LANGUAGE OF
B E I N G
Conversations for Connection
WHAT IS THE LANGUAGE OF BEING™
The Language of Being™ is a deeper look at what we are all doing:
Speaking.
We speak for:
Coordinating with one another.
Addressing our needs, wants, desires.
Attending to the concerns of each other.
Connecting with people.
Learning what makes us tick.
Discovering what we love and don’t love.
Who we love and don’t seemingly love.
And we even speak for awakening.
ABOUT THE LANGUAGE OF BEING™
The Language of Being is a simple study of the most foundational aspects of human communication.
We can restore our humanity by learning the fundamentals of how to mutually address concerns in a way that is enlivening and effective. We can generate new possibilities in our lives and have them fulfilled. Sounds technical, and yet it’s deeply humanizing. And profoundly spiritual.
A proper relationship to language IS the secret to restoring connection, aliveness, authenticity, and mastery in our human experience.
VISION STATEMENT
The vision for the Language of Being is a world of dignity and possibility for all brought forth through Care and the Principle of Effective Action™.
MISSION STATEMENT
The mission for Language of Being is bringing forth clarity, effectiveness, and connection for humanity. The Language of Being provides a foundational support system to be who you are here to be and do what you are here to do with affinity, aliveness, and mastery.
THE LINEAGE
The Language of Being has a lineage that includes the work of Martin Heidegger, J.L. Austin, Dr. Fernando Flores, Humberto Maturana, Francisco Varela, and Gary Newby.
I was trained by Gary. He was certified in Ontological Design in Dr. Flores’ 3-year program in the late 1980s.
I have training and experience in the studies since 2002 and have the longest study and co-leading history with Gary in the original work. I have branded my offering of this work as The Language of Being.
NILA VELCHOFF
My passion is paving the way for greater access to our humanity, dignity, and Beingness.
I absolutely love guiding smart, creative, sensitive, awake people in leading fulfilling lives, giving their gifts effectively, and navigating life successfully.
Nila is the Co-Creator of The Language of Being™
I am a compassionate, intuitive Coach, Mentor, and Facilitator. I am a co-creator of the Language of Being, a body of work that provides a simple way to have powerful, clear communication, coordinate and collaborate with others more easily, and live happier lives.
For five years, I studied and facilitated Radix™ emotional release bodywork and was a participant and facilitator in Stillness Technologies™ for many years, a profound, cutting-edge meditation technique. My training also includes studying with an “ontological” teacher for 20 years. Ontological teachers teach the nature of “Being” and how to live in the world in “Being” rather than in thingness.
Thingness is when we live in a world of people as commodities instead of people as living beings with their own concerns.
Since 1992, I have facilitated thousands of hours of workshops, telecourses, and coaching sessions.
My life experience includes successfully surviving, grieving, and thriving through divorce, serious illness, and the loss of my only child, Seth Orion.
My life is devoted to the evolution of human beings, restoring our humanity, and bringing forth a world that works for all living beings. I am working with leaders, facilitators, and healers to leave a legacy for the Language of Being to be part of the new paradigm I believe is occurring for humanity.
IS THIS FOR YOU?
The Language of Being is relevant to all human beings in any field of work, any kind of personal relationship, and almost any level of education.
If you are creative, empathic, sensitive being, the Language of Being is a powerful compass for navigating life in a not-so-empathic, sensitive world.
If you have a dream for your life and a vision for our world that makes a difference for others, working with us can assist you in fulfilling your calling in a world that isn’t necessarily easy for evolutionary and revolutionary visionaries.
Working with me or the Language of Being students and Certified Coaches provides a bridge from expanded consciousness to the world of daily conversations, responsibilities, commitments, the material world, spirituality, discord, harmony, and other conditions we experience as human beings.
If you desire to see a transformation in your relationships (business or personal) and the quality of your speaking and ability to collaborate, consider studying the Language of Being. Clients also report greater ease in avoiding conflict, resolving conflict when it occurs, and functioning more easily in life.
We work with entrepreneurs, artists, healers, business leaders, spiritual teachers, and other beautiful human beings on a path to fulfill a calling. Reach out to us.
The basic overview of the Language of Being takes about eight to ten hours to study. This initial training can be effective by itself with no further study. A little goes far.
For serious students and those desiring to be a Certified Language of Being Coach, a study course of up to one to three years is available. An individualized curriculum for certification can be designed for you.
WORK
WITH NILA
Coaching with me from the perspective of the Language of Being provides a deeper, more effective dialogue about what is going on in your life. We get to the heart of things more easily. And we name it so we can begin being effective with your concerns, your desires, and needs more quickly. This is about having your life work in the world while deepening your own spiritual path.
There are only a few teachers certified to teach this work to various audiences. We are excited to be creating new structures for reaching a broader audience and sharing this work with the world. This is our corner of contribution for restoring our humanity and our human connections.
Please contact me below to schedule a free consultation to see what’s possible for you in working with me or any of our coaches and students.
COACH
CERTIFICATION
For coaches and those wishing to be trained as a coach, I have individually designed certification programs available. If you are already trained as a coach, life coach, relationship coach, or any other type of personal coaching, the Language of Being work will deepen all of your other training and increase your competency with clients.
If you have not been trained as a coach, the Language of Being work provides a foundation to underpin all other coaching trainings that you might pursue. You can coach from this work alone or combine with almost any other modality or area of expertise.
Please contact me to schedule a session to have a conversation about your coaching interests. I’m curious about your possibilities!